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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>louisgray.com - Latest Comments in Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://louisgray.disqus.com/</link><description>A Silicon Valley Blog for Early Adopters and Tech Geeks</description><atom:link href="https://louisgray.disqus.com/thread_5888/latest.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 02:40:38 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-22426684</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Completely agree with you. It's one thing not to implement a feature, but to build it, let people use it, and then yank it away is pretty lame, and I'm glad to see you write about it and calling them out!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jan Ole Peek</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 02:40:38 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7995980</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I see nothing wrong with a company recommending how best to use their product. But leave it that. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">VlogHog</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:24:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7939872</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Great post. Companies need to listen more; isn't that the essence of social media anyway?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Christine Perkett</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 12:14:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7938362</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Well said Mr. Gray.  Never over-think things for your customers, they'll figure out what works best for them and vote with their actions.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">John Andrews</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 11:13:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7936028</link><description>&lt;p&gt;But that's the key- all these are services/tools- that you don't own- they do.&lt;br&gt;As long as you are going to "donate" your content to them- be wary.&lt;br&gt;The simple answer is to take ownership of your own online persona- post on a site you own- don't be a digital sharecropper.&lt;br&gt;There is no free lunch.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">David Esrati</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 09:22:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7878963</link><description>&lt;p&gt;did you know, normal people that have a life besides there PC call twitter just "SMS".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">marcus5s</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 06:09:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7845908</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Man Louis ... You started a comment Meme!  While I share your sentiments, I think the key to all of this is outright simplicity and ease of adoption (and, of course, who has 'the buzz').  I too am anxiously awaiting the new GUI from Friendfeed.  As an early participant, even I haven't found the time to set up groups etc., and miss some of the previously active people (a lot).  Both Facebook (in it's newly revised format) and Twitter will continue to see growth due to the simplicity of adoption in people's daily routines.  I hope Friendfeed is looking that way!  The flexibility and potential of THAT platform is unstoppable because you can me it just about anything you want and have great and interesting dialog at the same time.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">charlieanzman</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:31:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7833904</link><description>&lt;p&gt;That is exactly what I got out of this post, Louis (plus, I agree with the post - well said)!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Laura</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 18:29:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7829220</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Any company has the right to develop and control their product they way they want, (its their product), but just because they have the right doesn't mean its the right thing to do.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Kim Landwehr</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 13:34:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7826918</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Mona, Jesse, I stand corrected re Facebook's API. I should read more. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">John E. Bredehoft</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 10:59:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7822640</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Lose site of your customers and you will wind up like General Motors sleeping next to Custer-Facbook Twitter are all attempting to monetize before they plan the direction of their product-Many of these applications were developed by people educated in Technology not Liberal Arts there fore they can communicate with machines not people-they must go back to nature and listen to the BOW WOW not consume Bits and Bytes with their Latte and they need a course in Semantic's and General Semantics -Mitch I don't know you but comments made in anger are childish-why would this article well written evoke your anger HUH ! Calm down write your comments out in long hand then add them you will become a great Worsmith-vulgate language is only to be written in the men's room above the Urinal HEH&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">marshal sandler</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 08:41:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7821293</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm not a fan of autofollow for my personal account. I don't mind if Twitter turns off autofollow from their side. As I understand they will allow some services to still use it (like SocialToo), right?  What I didn't like was how Twitter made that assumption. I agree with you, when I read the "disingenuous" part I was surprised.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However, I have one Twitter account that is more of an RSS feed on a niche. I interact with that account sometimes, but mostly it's used for announcements. But there are a couple hundred who want those announcements. I decided for that account I would autofollow because they show some interest in that niche.  However, when I engage using that account, it's when I filter it by a # tag.  So really, I'm autofollowing many people, but only want to know when they use the niche # tag. Plus in this situation, they can now DM me if they need to.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Rob Williams</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 05:39:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819863</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Mona, I'd love to - I just can't afford it right now and I can't expect to achieve funding in this economy. Robert's neighborhood would be a perfect location for my family (except the schools, so I hear).&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jesse Stay</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:24:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819862</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I think you belong there too, Jesse. Why don't you move next door to Robert? LOL&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mona</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:22:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819861</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Mona, it's things like this that really make me wish I lived in the Valley.  I think I could really be building relationships with these folks by attending their parties, press conferences, going to lunch/dinner, etc. Not something I could be doing virtually.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jesse Stay</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:22:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819766</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Mona, I'm still debating wether to make a fuss out of that.  Facebook is giving preference to one author over another, allowing them to promote to all developers without allowing other authors the opportunity. I want to be able to do a guest post about my book to their entire list of developers. :-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jesse Stay</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:13:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819765</link><description>&lt;p&gt;@Robert Agreed, it's amazing what a concrete understanding (and a bit of foresight) into the industry can reap. Plenty of missed opportunities, but not in FB's case, they're onto it.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mo Kargas</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:12:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819764</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The book you were plugging on the dev forum. I LOVED THAT PLUG HAHA&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mona</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:12:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819763</link><description>&lt;p&gt;John, Facebook has a superior third-party interface, much more extensive than Twitter's, as does MySpace.  I wrote the book on it. :-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jesse Stay</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:11:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819762</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Facebook and myspace both have mobile versions but they like to handle everything themselves.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Richard A.</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:09:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819692</link><description>&lt;p&gt;One company that woke up: Nintendo.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mona</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:05:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819691</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Mo: yeah, or what about Xerox? They invented this whole industry and didn't see the importance of what they had done. They had TOTAL transparency into what was going on and STILL couldn't "get it."&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Robert Scoble</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:03:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819689</link><description>&lt;p&gt;@Robert: Definitely one of the single biggest mistakes Atari made.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mo Kargas</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:02:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819688</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Jesse: that's the rub. You've gotta be transparent to get anything done. You'll need hosting partners. Investment partners. PR partners. Etc etc. That requires telling people what you're up to. This is where luck comes in. Remember, Wozniak offered his personal computer to HP and Atari and they turned him down. They didn't think it was important enough of a market.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Robert Scoble</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:01:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Telling Me How to Use Your Products</title><link>http://blog.louisgray.com/2009/04/stop-telling-me-how-to-use-your.html#comment-7819687</link><description>&lt;p&gt;But at this point, why even waste time? Sure new users may pop up, but a lot of people will be weary of fake accounts, brushing it off as "Oh man, not another Myspacer heading out this way." Smartest decision Zuckerberg ever made - doing it backwards.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mona</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:01:00 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>